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  • in reply to: Advent/Christmas Party? #825
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    We’re free!

    we could do like tackiest Christmas zoom background contest (instead of tacky sweater). That’s my only idea. Idk how a virtual white elephant would work.

    in reply to: Thoughts on the Sex Talk with Pirolas #784
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    We were completely blown away. We feel these conversations can become way too philosophical or too graphic for our taste. We know the Catholic “cookie cutter” answers that TOB and Love&responsibility provide. When we sat down for that talk we weren’t expecting much or to hear anything different. After the zoom we sat up for 2 hours unpacking what really stuck out to us. We’ve been married 7 years and we’re hitting that point where we’ve both formed bad habits and stuck to them not realizing we were hurting the other. We felt like the Pirolas talk really catapulted is to the deeper level we’ve been looking for to heal some of those parts. We also just need to laugh more as a couple and this talk had us rolling, we thought they were refreshingly honest in a really funny way we could identify with.

    The part where they they discussed skin to skin and compared it to the Eucharist I thought was really profound. And as an L&D nurse we do skin to skin all the time w/moms and newborns. So thinking about that in the context of the Eucharist as well-It’s only inevitable that our marriage needs that kind of intimacy too! I was wondering when they started that in their marriage b/c for us it would be hard to find that kind of time. When Byron said “15-20minutes, just make that space” Billy’s response was “20min?!?! Who has that kind of time to lay around naked”. Though in talking about it later he saw the beauty in it all as well.

    Another point towards the end was the discussion of family planning. I am so happy you all brought up that unity with God in those decisions even when it’s hard. The ensuing discussion of where that fear comes from because it can’t be from the Lord. The prayer of “let my heart be in union with yours” (agony in the Garden) was so impactful in our later conversation as a couple. And this discussion/the podcast in general has been really good about increasing our prayer life to making our hearts seek Gods will, and then MAKING A DECISION. So many times we get stuck in discernment that we forget God can bless any decision we make when we’ve placed Him at the center. And so that simple prayer of “let our will be your will” is really just the driving force of the podcast and this particular discussion on intimacy and we kind of have lost sight of that so it was really good to bring it back to the forefront.

    in reply to: Article about the Desire Discrepancy #775
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    we looked at their website last night, and what an awesome resource to tell my married friends that are struggling in these areas!

    in reply to: If you are homeschooling this year, check this out… #742
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    Hey Adam,

    Not sure if this will help or is what your asking (we have pre k and 1st as well) but sticker charts of some sort might work. Some of my kids reading workbooks have sticker charts to show progress and I created one for their math. They each have their own bulletin board with their charts to help them stay on track. Something that’s displayed in the home to show their progress that they can take ownership of works for us and might for you.
    I also bought a sticker atlas (Amazon) this year to build a world map on our wall (“around the world with picture books” is the curriculum) & they love that thing. They’re building country by country and it’s pretty simple.

    in reply to: August 28 – Live Discussion #737
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    We should be there

    in reply to: Prayers for my uncle #678
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    Miller family will be praying for peace and consolation. Glad you are able to go as well!

    in reply to: Meet the Franz Family! #463
    Lori & Billy Miller
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    We are avid homesteaders! I was surprised w how easy chickens were. We started them as chicks and had the kids handle them a ton and now they are the most mild mannered chickens. The gardening part is always a hit or miss with our kids. We have mostly girls (3 girls, 1 boy) so we grow a lot of flowers that they like. I would say with boys plant fruit trees bc they’ll love climbing them 😂

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